Comments on: Women Over 50—Raise Your “Havingness Quotient!” http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/ Celebrating Women 50 and Better Sun, 05 Feb 2012 19:44:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Tricia http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-321 Tricia Wed, 04 Jun 2008 04:48:09 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-321 Thanks for writing about the havingness quotient. Feeling good about ourselves makes the world a more positive place. Thanks for writing about the
havingness quotient. Feeling good
about ourselves makes the world
a more positive place.

]]> By: charlottescott http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-316 charlottescott Sun, 01 Jun 2008 18:23:41 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-316 Beautiful. If only we could believe with ease and lack of effort that we are capable. Imagine the possibility. Our lack and undeserving seems embedded within us like a chip at birth. I have also heard that if you meditate on your "success cube" in other words the space around you that you allow success to fill you can stretch this cube and grow into all the success you can imagine. Beautiful. If only we could believe with ease and lack of effort that we are capable. Imagine the possibility. Our lack and undeserving seems embedded within us like a chip at birth. I have also heard that if you meditate on your “success cube” in other words the space around you that you allow success to fill you can stretch this cube and grow into all the success you can imagine.

]]> By: HomeSpun Granny http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-317 HomeSpun Granny Sun, 01 Jun 2008 02:07:58 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-317 I appreciated this article and the exercise that goes along with it. I totally agree that we have often self sabotage our own efforts because we either lack the confidence to reach our goals, or we just plain don't feel we are worthy of it. I am going to try this exercise and see how I measure up! Thanks for sharing! I appreciated this article and the exercise that goes along with it. I totally agree that we have often self sabotage our own efforts because we either lack the confidence to reach our goals, or we just plain don’t feel we are worthy of it. I am going to try this exercise and see how I measure up! Thanks for sharing!

]]> By: Pop Art Diva http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-319 Pop Art Diva Sun, 01 Jun 2008 00:35:51 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-319 Eileen - "havingness" - great concept for feeling you deserve a better life and the things you hope for! I will use this exercise when my "don't deserve demons" start pecking away at me! Eileen – “havingness” – great concept for feeling you deserve a better life and the things you hope for!
I will use this exercise when my “don’t deserve demons” start pecking away at me!

]]> By: CLuck http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-322 CLuck Sat, 31 May 2008 22:43:59 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-322 What a great idea, Eileen! Thanks for sharing it. I think I'll go sit for a few minutes to see what my own havingness quotient is~ Congrats on starting out at three and moving up to a seven. You're a risng star! What a great idea, Eileen! Thanks for sharing it. I think I’ll go sit for a few minutes to see what my own havingness quotient is~

Congrats on starting out at three and moving up to a seven. You’re a risng star!

]]> By: menopausemama http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-320 menopausemama Sat, 31 May 2008 02:38:54 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-320 I believe God gives up wake up calls from time to time. There is a scripture: "To whom much is given much is required" Sometimes we tend to forget that it's not about us so when things start to fall apart,it becomes difficult to handle. But if you keep your focus on BLESSING others ---you will continue to be BLESSED. Eileen, you have been a blessing to others so it is your due season! I believe God gives up wake up calls from time to time. There is a scripture: “To whom much is given much is required” Sometimes we tend to forget that it’s not about us so when things start to fall apart,it becomes difficult to handle. But if you keep your focus on BLESSING others —you will continue to be BLESSED.

Eileen, you have been a blessing to others so it is your due season!

]]> By: Julie Molner http://feistysideoffifty.com/2008/05/30/women-over-50%e2%80%94raise-your-%e2%80%9chavingness-quotient%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-318 Julie Molner Fri, 30 May 2008 20:51:51 +0000 http://feistysideoffifty.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-318 What a wonderful exercise and one that most of us could benefit from--thanks for sharing it with us! I'm going to give it a try myself. As they say in the Law of Attraction, the biggest obstacles is that we don't "allow" what we want to come to us. Congratulations to you for continuing to pursue your goal to get what you want in spite of all the setbacks; it's very clear that it took a lot of perseverence and courage too! In a book I co-authored, Your Life Your Way: The Essential Guide for Women, we talk about the negative internal messages and self-doubt that pop up. It's true for all people--we haven't been taught to believe we deserve or to allow things to come to us. So glad you are finding a way that works for you...you definitely are deserving of all you want. Julie Molner www.essentialguideforwomenblog.com What a wonderful exercise and one that most of us could benefit from–thanks for sharing it with us! I’m going to give it a try myself. As they say in the Law of Attraction, the biggest obstacles is that we don’t “allow” what we want to come to us.

Congratulations to you for continuing to pursue your goal to get what you want in spite of all the setbacks; it’s very clear that it took a lot of perseverence and courage too!

In a book I co-authored, Your Life Your Way: The Essential Guide for Women, we talk about the negative internal messages and self-doubt that pop up. It’s true for all people–we haven’t been taught to believe we deserve or to allow things to come to us.

So glad you are finding a way that works for you…you definitely are deserving of all you want.

Julie Molner
http://www.essentialguideforwomenblog.com

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